A domesticated rat can make a perfect pet.  They have been given many bad raps but in actuality they are very affectionate, clean and intelligent.  Rats love to be cuddled and held and can even be trained to come on command.  They are also very easy to care for.  I’m serious about this so read on to see some suggestions if your child is asking for a pet.

Mosquitos are an unpleasant nuisance and can ruin an enjoyable summer evening but they also carry West Nile which could be deadly especially to am infant. An ounce of prevention is much better than a infant howling with itchy red welts. Understanding what attracts mosquitoes is as important as understanding what repels them. Mosquitos like humidity such as perspiration and moist plants, dark clothing, carbon dioxide, floral scents, still air, early mornings or evenings and lactic acid which is released after exercising or eating salty or high-potassium foods. People who eat garlic are often not bothered by insects as much. Avoid taking your infant out at night and dump all old standing water such as rain barrels and items that have accumulated water.

You might want to try several of the suggestions below.

It’s extremely difficult to lose a pet especially if you’ve had the pet for a long time and your child is attached to it.  Maybe you’ve tried to explain to your child why his pal is not longer there, but your child is sad and confused–AND your heart is aching too.

Many times the death of a pet is the first time a child experiences death and the loss of a loved one.  Although this is an important step in his emotional development it is a difficult one as well.

Preschoolers don’t perceive death as permanent so the child may wonder where the pet is and who is taking care of it.  You can let your cultural and spiritual beliefs guide your answers as you assure him the pet is at peace and not in pain.  Try asking your child where he thinks his dog has gone to help you shape your talk with him. 

This loss may cause your child to become clingy, so assure him that you are just going to work and will return.  He might also think that something he said or did caused his pet to not return, so discuss why he thinks the dog died.  Be sure to reassure him that it wasn’t his fault and that some things like death can’t be controlled. 

If your child is moody and irritable let him know that it is okay to feel that way.  If he seems to be pouting or fighting with siblings or friends-redirect this attention to an activity he enjoys or do something fun like go to the park or bake a cake.  To help him overcome sadness-have him draw a picture or tell a story about his happiest times with the pet, but let him guide this activity.

As you comfort your child, don’t overlook your own bereavement.  He’ll feel your grief so let him know that sadness is a normal part of life for both kids and adults.  Be sure to validate his and your own feelings.  Don’t ever try to replace the pet immediately or conceal the pet’s death cause this may heighten your child’s anxiety- he’ll sense you are hiding something. 

Help your child express himself so he and you can work through this difficult time.